Yes i had to name this post as "Wedding Mania" coz this is what the current season here, seems to be!! I attended one of my batchmate's (we did our graduation together) wedding yesterday and it suddenly felt as if i m this stupid gurl out here who hasn't got married yet coz she has certain ambitions to fulfill b4 walkin down the aisle.....Am i expecting too much!?
Really dunno abt tht coz according to ppl i knw around me, i hav everything a gurl can ask for...an MBA (from a more or less decent b-school), a cushy job with a six figure pay, and most of all a guy who i hav been dating from donkey's years. So wht am i waitin for....Well me and my guy r of the same age and we both don't feel the need to get married right away as we want 2 be adequately prepared for a new life ahead...which wud mean; to hav a decent bank balance (savings for a rainy day) and a house of our own (with the sky rocketing real estate rates i dunno hw far is it possible!).....thts abt it as of now. Now the question is, r v being too ambitious......or r v being stupid!? My answer is a big NO....coz v don't want to get married jus bcoz everybody around us seems to be doin so!! We definitely want to b 2gether, but not at the cost of our dreams!! Thankfully i hav very understanding parents who hav not yet started pestering me wth the thought of gettin married. May be they r waitin for me to walk upto them and tell them tht i m finally ready to get married. To think of it, its not tht far....one to two yrs down the line shud b the time for us to get hitched! :D So tht brings me to a question for all of u out there....When do u feel is the right time for a guy/girl to get married?? I don't want to see answers talkin of the right age and stuff....wud rather prefer to see wht u want to achieve b4 goin ahead wth marriage? :)
Really dunno abt tht coz according to ppl i knw around me, i hav everything a gurl can ask for...an MBA (from a more or less decent b-school), a cushy job with a six figure pay, and most of all a guy who i hav been dating from donkey's years. So wht am i waitin for....Well me and my guy r of the same age and we both don't feel the need to get married right away as we want 2 be adequately prepared for a new life ahead...which wud mean; to hav a decent bank balance (savings for a rainy day) and a house of our own (with the sky rocketing real estate rates i dunno hw far is it possible!).....thts abt it as of now. Now the question is, r v being too ambitious......or r v being stupid!? My answer is a big NO....coz v don't want to get married jus bcoz everybody around us seems to be doin so!! We definitely want to b 2gether, but not at the cost of our dreams!! Thankfully i hav very understanding parents who hav not yet started pestering me wth the thought of gettin married. May be they r waitin for me to walk upto them and tell them tht i m finally ready to get married. To think of it, its not tht far....one to two yrs down the line shud b the time for us to get hitched! :D So tht brings me to a question for all of u out there....When do u feel is the right time for a guy/girl to get married?? I don't want to see answers talkin of the right age and stuff....wud rather prefer to see wht u want to achieve b4 goin ahead wth marriage? :)
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